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Offline Sami Yusuf Islam

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i just wanted to know that who did u talk with??? where do u get all these answer, unfortunately i can't accept ur answer before u show me proof, cause ISLAM i know is always & will be always based on proof.

thanks in advance, i'll wait for your proof.

all of what I answered here before is to be found in the basic hanafi fiqh books. I admit that I do not know by heart the page and line reference to each item. 

Offline Sword_of_Allah

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all of what I answered here before is to be found in the basic hanafi fiqh books. I admit that I do not know by heart the page and line reference to each item.

thank you for your reply. why can't we get "basic hanafi fiqh books" here? someone should post these books through scan or pdf or something. don't u think so???

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thank you for your reply. why can't we get "basic hanafi fiqh books" here? someone should post these books through scan or pdf or something. don't u think so???


you are right. I don't have them right now. I moved many times recently and gave away most of my paper books. I don't have those needed fiqh books among my ebooks.

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may Allah bless you and reward you for those very courageous questions.

I asked those questions before and got this answer:

husband inserting his finger to his wife's anus, not haram, but he should not touch the bowl (the feces) .....

and

masturbation is haram even if he or she did not reach ejaculation.

e.g. if he or she excites himself or herself by touching with his or her fingers or with a vibrator, then yes, this is haram, even if he or she stops before ejaculation.

now bear in mind this is self-masturbation that we are talking about.

If a wife plays, strokes, touches, kisses the penis of her husband, this is very OK , even if he ejaculates

the same way, if a man touches, strokes, fundles, moves, excites the hunny-bunny of his wife, that is also OK even if she ejaculates.


So the masturbation that we were talking about earlier was self-masturbation.....

Do you have any reference pertaining to this in the Al Quran?

Offline Sami Yusuf Islam

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Do you have any reference pertaining to this in the Al Quran?

you are serious ?

do you think that the 602 pages of the Koran would include a judgment about every detail of the muslim life ?

 

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you are serious ?

do you think that the 602 pages of the Koran would include a judgment about every detail of the muslim life ?

that's why we need to get the fiqh books as pdf

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that's why we need to get the fiqh books as pdf

well, that is where I need your help

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thanks.. just want to have background with this.. this really help..

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There is no proscription regarding swallowing semen in the Quoran. so it's OK, right?

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if fingering leads to the wife to ejaculate, is that OK?

also, is the fist allowed?

 



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