Topic: Let me help you with your islamic sexual education. Halal and Haram for Spouses

[Sami Yusuf Islam]

sub7anAllahi wa bi7amdihi

welcome dear.

[Mirza.]

Salam
Going through your various topics, I find out that you have given degree that this is Haran and this is allowed. It will very helpfull to me if you can tell what was your sourse before you issue such a verdict, because in Quran Allah says don't just say what comes into your mind this is Haram and this is Allowed. I want the sourse because Allah says in Quran When you recive some information varify it.
Salam
Mirza

[Sami Yusuf Islam]

you are right.

tell me precisely which specific question you would like a proof for

[Mirza.]

Salam
Thanks for your reply. I am sorry if you did not understand my question.  I never asked for proof. I am not a very learned man and my English is also below average. I am very conscious man in my daily life also I always verify every things, sometimes may be more than 2 or 3 times, My colleagues also sometimes get frustrated  but I can’t help it. Whenever I get time I read    Quran’s Translation. I joined your web site just to get a better understanding about Islam. I have recently joined , so I was going through various sites and I came across some topics in sex section, e.g. Masturbation, or oral sex etc, what I saw over there was someone ask a question and you give your verdict on that, because of  that I ask my question hope you didn’t mind. Actually I am in a very confuse state. Looking around my self, seeing Muslims killing Muslims, in the name of Allah. The amount of corruption among the Muslims.  I don’t want to be the member of this community, but I don’t know where to go. I believe Allah.   Quran is my favorite Book, Arabic is not my language I only read translation. What I am telling you what I have seen with my own eyes. I have seen nearly every part of the world, I have met so many people around the world in different field of life from very poor to very rich people. I have so many stories with me. What I have seen tells me (may be you will not like this but I know this is true which is always bitter) Muslim community is one of worst community if not the worst with respect humanity, or moral values are concern.   I don’t think these are those Muslim Allah is talking about in Quran.  I think I am carried away by sentiments just over look my thoughts.
Salam
Mirza.   

[Sami Yusuf Islam]

what I saw over there was someone ask a question and you give your verdict on that,

Mirza

it is NOT my verdict, but what I know to be the islamic rule....... that is, it is the verdict of the prophet / islam on the issue.

now as most users trust that I am fully conscious of the terrible consequences of giving my own personal opinion as the rule of Islam, they simply take the answer ....  but if anyone asks for proof / resources / quotes / I am always ready to provide the origin of any answer I am quoting.....

[Rec810]

aoa. thanks for this topic. however i am confused on this ?

"Oral sex is not Haram, but he must not ejaculate in her mouth. If there is any liquid coming out, she must not swallow that. "

if possible could you please reference/link the above statement to hadith or ayah which classifies semen as haram in regards to swallowing ? as i read a hadith that semen is athar. (kindly do refer to hadith even if you post a fatwa.)

furthermore what is the status of wifes milk (e.g tasting it) for husband during intimacy ?

thankssssss aoa

[Sami Yusuf Islam]

aoa. thanks for this topic. however i am confused on this ?

"Oral sex is not Haram, but he must not ejaculate in her mouth. If there is any liquid coming out, she must not swallow that. "

if possible could you please reference/link the above statement to hadith or ayah which classifies semen as haram in regards to swallowing ? as i read a hadith that semen is athar. (kindly do refer to hadith even if you post a fatwa.)

furthermore what is the status of wifes milk (e.g tasting it) for husband during intimacy ?

thankssssss aoa

welcome..........

first post and you go straight to the point.........

[Rec810]

first post and you go straight to the point.........

i hope that is a good thing. awaiting your reply. 

thanks for the welcome.

[Sword_of_Allah]

i just wanted to know that who did u talk with??? where do u get all these answer, unfortunately i can't accept ur answer before u show me proof, cause ISLAM i know is always & will be always based on proof.

thanks in advance, i'll wait for your proof.

[Sami Yusuf Islam]

i hope that is a good thing. awaiting your reply. 

thanks for the welcome.

it could be seen so. you are very welcome anyway....