Topic: I need quick help for a friend!!!!:'(

[stellarnew]

 

I need a quick suggestion so plz help me with it.

One of my friends, I want to convence her toward my points that having a relationship wth a guy befre marrying is haram and not good But everytime I hit a chat, she gets angry. She want to marry a guy where there are less chances of marrying, she thinks  and everytime I want to tell her something she puts the question that if hazrat khadija could pick prophet mohammad9(s.a.w) then why can't I?? But it is not about chossing a guy it is about getting involed with guy, I am really worried for her.. Plz tell me how should I convence her??    

[The Full Moon]

Dear stellarnew;

 

I do understand your frustration and the position you are in. Putting myself in your shoes I know how difficult it is, trying to advise someone to find the advise is falling on deaf ears.

But; at the end we have to admit that we cannot change the world.(unfortunately)
Each one is given the ability to choose, and our role is to advise in a nicest way possible, because maybe by insisting you are alienating her more.

Remind her that she is the only person who can make the dission about her life, but out of your concern maybe she is not seeing the whole picture and to wait a little bit to be sure will be in her own benefit.

A Reminder "God created us and he showed us the right way to life and what is wrong to avoid and he knows better that us" Loving God and obeying him will lead us to happiness, maybe not right away but this life is short and forever is what counts.
Life is defiantly a hard test and harder the more time passes, but we have to live it and take advantage of the chance to deserve going to paradise.

Keep her in your supplications and a good friend will stick with you no mater what. Do not give up on her, and insha'Allah she will be guided to the right decision.

salam

[NAANU]

In this TAI forum all the bro and sis always help u dear.

[manahel.fatima]

Dear if you are her closer friend then start ignoring her that will help her come toward you and give her a thought that seriously she is doing some thing  wrong. In love our all senses stop working and if some one is advising us we think the only enemy is that person so give her some time to understand. Hope so this will seriously solve her problem and lessen your frustration.

[The Full Moon]

Nice advise manahel.fatima we hope Allah will protect her and lead her to the right path ,Amen. 

[manahel.fatima]

INSH'ALLAH ALLAH will protect her from any other problems. You both are in my prayers. and soon you will tell me a good news that she start caring about you.