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1. Respect those you are writing to (don't walk on anyone's toes)
2. Be rigorous: do not consider it "fine enough" to mention this or that name of whoever reference, but bring proof, true proof on whatever you are claiming. If you are discussing anything related to Islam for example, then you need to bring proof on whatever you are claiming, and this "Proof" means verses of the great Quran and sayings of the great prophet and trustworthy scholars of islam that support your claim. You should be able to mention which scholars of islam said what, where, in which book, on which page for example. Your own personal opinion is undoubtedly that of a high value for us, but NOT but not when you call what you like as "Halal" (legal in islamic jurisdiction) or what you don't like as "Haram" (illegal)
3. Be convincing and polite. Do not impose your ideas on others, but present your ideas candidly, keeping in mind that YOU might be wrong.
4. Be brief : very few members or visitors ever would take the pain of reading very long messages.
5. Be direct : don't beat around the bush. Just go to the heart of the issue and say what you wish to say.
6. Be wise : THINK before you push the "Send" button.
As a conclusion, the Prophet Mouhammad salla-llâhou ^alayhi wasallam said what means: "Respect the «conditions» of other muslims" (as our rules of use of our forums) Narrated by AlBayhaqiyy (11762), AdDaraqouTniyy (2932), Mâlik in alMouwatta’ (1447), and many others.
